Start with the essentials

Choose the date range, your experience budget and how private you’d like the moment to be.

  • Choose a preferred setting and a covered alternative.
  • Confirm the venue’s proposal and photography permissions.
  • Book accommodation and transport if needed.
  • Keep the ring budget separate from the experience.

Confirm the suppliers

Ask for written inclusions so each person knows their role.

  • Confirm photography coverage, delivery and travel.
  • Approve the styling colours, quantities and setup time.
  • Share dietary needs with the caterer or venue.
  • Agree any live music or video arrangements.

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Bring the day into focus

A short run sheet should be easy to read on a phone.

  • Add the address, meeting point and venue contact.
  • Agree the arrival update and proposal cue.
  • Set the weather decision time.
  • Leave time between the proposal, portraits and dinner.

Prepare your personal details

Choose the words and keepsakes that feel like your relationship.

  • Write a few notes for what you’d like to say.
  • Plan how you’ll carry the ring securely.
  • Choose comfortable clothing and shoes for the setting.
  • Decide when you’d like to tell family and friends.

Keep the plan easy to share

Send the final timing to the people involved and keep a copy with your booking confirmations.

Confirm your discreet contact method if the proposal is a surprise.

You can use the planning form even if some decisions are still open.

Your questions, answered

How early should I start planning?

Start once you have a date range, and enquire earlier for a specific property, photographer or busy weekend; availability determines the practical lead time.

Images show illustrative proposal styles, rather than a specific venue or completed booking.